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There is no such thing as bad behaviour - a child is simply trying to meet his or her need!
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“There is no such thing as bad behaviour – children are simply trying to meet their needs”
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“Grab the Remote and Press Pause”
We need to tune into our children and get on the same wavelength
Instead try....

˜ Door openers such as ‘Let’s hear your side of the story…’, or ‘Tell me what really happened…’
˜ Connecting by encouraging a diversity of opinions and ideas
˜ Offering suggestions but not demanding that they are accepted
˜ Listening to their views, which you may not agree with but at least you’re talking!
It is never what you say but what you do that is important to them
Taken from ‘Beyond the Naughty Step”, published by Infinite Ideas Ltd, £12.99. Publication due January 2010. Advance copies can be booked now at only £9.99, and is also available as a download ebook or on cd at £7.50, redeemable against hardcopy of paperback. Read more
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